Found something while bloghopping and I find it so interesting.
A relationship starts off as a clear piece of paper. When it starts, both parties are excited as it's their first time together. They will fill the paper up with the best of things they can think of. Sometimes the guy writes more and sometimes the girl. Some people writes without thinking much, some writes after some thought.
As the writing carries on, it gets tiring and the couple have to be motivated to keep on writing. This is the commitment and responsibility of a relationship. As long as the urge to write continues,the writing will never end. It will carry on paper after paper until one pen's ink run out. This is what we define eternal love till death do us apart...
Some couples prefer to write together,some write their own and combine the efforts.Neither side should be the only one writing, else the one who does will feel too tired to carry on.
The character of a person is like the handwriting on the paper. Everyone has their own style of writing. It is difficult to change one's handwriting. Not impossible but it takes a lot of time and hard work.
The outcome may not be desirable and it is also difficult to imitate the handwriting of another person. The most one can do is to be tidier or more untidy in their handwritings.Sometimes,to make the writings on the paper look more presentable,it could be necessary for either side to slightly alter the style of their handwritings.
A mistake in love is like a smudge on the paper, there's no way to erase the smudge totally even though it's accidental or perhaps on purpose. No matter how well the writings were, or how lovely was the content, a smudge will leave a mark no matter how well u cover it (eraser, liquid paper, etc). At this point of time, it will depends on the perception of the couple, to keep on writing because the content is good or not to continue for the outlook of their piece of work was defaced. Worst case is when the paper is torn which will leave a very ugly mark but still the decision lies with the couple.
To break-off is to stop writing and many reasons can lead to this ending. It can be the one who has been writing all the while to give up or it could be either party is unsatisfied with the content or dislike what each other was writing (it takes time to know the writing style of someone,it could be halfway through the paper before it is known).
Or a smudge exists and either one or both mind (depend on their level of perfectionism). Or it could be what they are writing are contradicting each other. It can also be the case where one party finds another partner to write with.
Other analogies... Pen users are serious lovers while those who use pencils like to test things out first. Some even write drafts with other people (many-timers).
After a breakup, a photocopy of the writings made so far is made and this is given to a party while the other keeps the original (for memories).Or it could be either or neither will keep the writings. It could also be the original work lies there waiting for the original writers to be back.
A well-done masterpiece could be bound into a book and kept forever.Likewise in some cases, it may be pieces of paper lying around.Different people writes different things and have different outcomes.In the case of people going through many relationships, it's just like changing partners to work with.
Some may write things according to past experiences or have new ideas. While writing, the couple may exchange their pens. In a new relationship, one party might mind that his/her partner's pen has been used by other people before.Personally I believe this also applies to friendship right?
It also requires both parties to play their part to keep the friendship forever lasting.

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