For someone I know...

Hey friend,

I hope you know this is for you.

I know these few days or even weeks will be a tough one for you. Just want to to let you know, you still have us around ok?

I am not good with words, thus no good at comforting people. However, I just want to tell you, sometimes the pain you incurred on people is equal to the hurt you're incurring on yourself. People around you will not be sad because you are sad. We felt heartaches, on why you are torturing yourself like that. You actually made a sacrifice for something you're holding on to till now. Why not 'hua bei fen wei li liang', channel that energy to other things you're supposed to do.

I hope you can really stop thinking you're sorry for everything that had happened. You maybe at fault, you may not be entirely at fault too. Things worked both way. Things don't go haywire or even goes well when there's only 1 factor contributing to it.

Time to move on girl. Things will never get better if you keep dwelling on it. I am very sorry for not being able to do anything for you. Frankly speaking, I do not know how to tell you all these on msn or in person. Because I am afraid of making things worse. By making yourself feeling despair not only makes you going round and round over the well of troubles, it also retards the progress of other things you're supposed to do.

Open up, let go your emotions, clear things up, and get ready for a new chapter of life. You have us, your friends. And your faith to bring and guide you along. You may hear things that affect you negatively, but you gotta set your mindset firmly. Because if you're going to continue despairing, you will only let negative things affect you, positive things as a gust of wind. So even those who want to help you can't do anything too.

I know things are much easier to said than to be done. But if you don't try, how would you know the outcome? I sincerely hope the very one day, you can smile once again, genuinely.

Your friend
Wee